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About RKS

To the Point

Who

Dr. Patt Hollinger Pickett has 30 years of experience as a licensed mental health provider and is a certified coach. Dr. Patt's current and former clients say they value her services for her customized treatment-no cookie cutters; her warmth -easy to talk to; outside the box thinking—never thought about it that way before; sense of humor and snark— when appropriate; directness—always respectful; and her interactive style— carefully listening, then asking questions and offering observations/information. Contact her here.

What

Dr. Patt provides coaching (to all) therapy (by law for Missouri residents only) a newsletter, podcasts, YouTube, webinars, and consulting. Her experience is broad, but her passion and specialty areas are marriage, relationships, communication, personal development, emotional expressiveness and management, emotional intelligence education, and career consultation. She offers an online emotional intelligence (EQ) questionnaire with an assessment score table and evaluation instruction sheets with self-help materials.

Why

Dr. Patt's life's work is guiding clients to their happy and best selves. She believes all people who make the commitment and do the work can change to achieve goals of great relationships and fulfilling lives.

Where

Dr. Patt provides direct services from her virtual office and offers limited face-to-face appointments at her physical location in the St. Louis area.

When
Office hours are by appointment only. Webinars are offered online as their schedule indicates.

How Much

After 25 years of participation as an in-network provider for several managed care insurance companies, Dr. Patt canceled all her contracts. Instead, she offers service fee and retainer options which reflect fairly on her PhD level credentials and licensing, over 30 years of professional experience, and her comprehensive skills in/knowledge of mental health, emotional intelligence, relationship connection, communication, and more.

Books/Self-Help

Dr. Patt has published self-help books and resources including card decks, coloring books, webinars, and podcasts.

Free Stuff

Complementary newsletter- WiseAce360, tips, information, podcasts, and other online resources are available from Dr. Patt.

Excitement

 I  truly enjoy my clients’ excitement of developing  their happy and best self. 

Discovery of your emotional intelligence strengths and weaknesses through the validated online assessment for EQ will show you the  way to improve your emotional management and closeness with intimate others.

Although you may be seeking  therapy or coaching , while you are here, please check the additional mental health and wellness support services .

It would be my privilege to work with you.** 

Finding the therapist with your best personal fit in mind is just that----PERSONAL.  However, as a therapist, I also have a personal sense of which clients fit best with me. Generally speaking, whether or not you can build a rapport is based on your compatibility with the professional style, skill sets, pacing, directness, and other unique characteristics of the Therapist or Coach. My clients honor me with their feedback suggesting that working with me represents the traits below. Scan this list to check out a possible fit. Do you---- 

  1. Prefer a provider who has gained insight through decades of experience?
  2. Need a direct approach?
  3. Appreciate snark and a sense of humor?
  4. Want really talking and active interaction instead of a formal unbalanced conversation with lots of “how-do-you-feels” and silent nods directed toward you?
  5. Regard "getting to the point" quickly a plus?
  6. Expect respect and partnership?
  7. Value a different perspective on things?
  8. Consider it a bonus to feel comfortable quickly?
  9. Like validation but ALSO a thoughtful challenge to your current thinking and ways?
  10. Seek a broad range of options to consider?
  11. Find a "down-to-earth-no-jargon-no judgment" encounter beneficial?

Professional

 I consistently provide a professional experience like described above. You will decide for yourself if my approach  fits you.

But now… maybe you are uncertain of what you want or need? That is OK, too. We can work together to figure it out. People often comment to me, “Well, I guess you’ve seen it all!” My response, “I’ve seen most of it, but everyone is unique. Something new always comes along.” I do not use a “cookie cutter” approach.  I have mastered a broad range of knowledge, skills, and tools over the years.

I encourage you to cruise my website and websites of others. You will get a feel for who I am and my top professional credentials. Review my  unique insights into life, the variety of my services,  my lengthy experience, accomplishments, my sense of humor (occasionally offbeat) and my focused-yet-friendly-style of being with my clients.

I invite you to  e-mail me with your specific questions. Or call me at 314-250-8114 or Toll Free at 1-877-447-3262. I look forward to teaming up with you to reach your goals.** 

Warmly,

Dr. Patt 

Contact Dr. Patt

Dr. Patt looks forward to a conversation with you!

PattPickett.com

TheMarriageWhisperer@PattPickett.com 314-250-8114

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